Have you ever fell so deeply for someone you loose control of what your own thoughts can consist of?
Have you ever gave so much to one person that it might have been too much?
Have you ever thought that falling in love would be just as hard as it can be easy?
Have you ever felt the person you love may not love you in the same respects as your admire?
Hello All,
Ok yes I know some of these questions can be a little forward but to be honest I feel that I am not alone in saying that at times we all feel this. Some well the thoughts can come more often then others. I have been with an amazing man for the past 4 months, he has a great heart, goals in life, great converstationalist but when it comes to showing affection I feel he may be a bit reserved. I understand that things progress but when I met him he was minorly depressed and well wanted passion, exuded that he was passionate and described upon it, as well as determined on many points of life. I see through his wall and see the man he can be, but will he be this with me ?
I have been reading a lot about relationships lately, and maybe some of this is at my fault. I understand that maybe I can be too available to him, and to affectionate to him, so does that make me a bad person? I feel after reading these articles that maybe if I dont take this step back then I might loose him.
When the topic of the ex boyfriends comes up, how is one suppose to respond, I mean I am understanding of his past experiences with love, but thats why I show more affection because he seems so drained of it in the past, like it was a one sides street to him, funny how things work eh ?
I have no idea why I'm writing this on here but maybe in someway its a release of my thoughts and answers and resolution will come as I have placed how I feel in the world.